Sandy and David met on an online dating site and their first phone call lasted over 6 hours. Some couples don’t speak that much over an entire marriage! I have been married for over 20 years and people always ask for the secret formula. It’s quite simple. Marry someone you love to talk to and listen to. Marry someone who’s voice is like a melody you can’t get out of your head. Marry your best friend. It is that simple.